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Meeting Safely

First Date Safety: A Practical Checklist for Meeting Someone New

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How to plan a first date with someone you met online: where to meet, who to tell, getting there and home on your own terms, drinks, and how to leave early.

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Meeting Safely

Is Your Match Real? How to Check Before You Meet

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Simple ways to confirm a dating match is who they claim to be: video calls, reverse image searches, verification badges and the inconsistencies worth noticing.

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Online Risks

Romance Scams: The Stories Scammers Tell and How to Spot Them

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How romance scammers work, the stories they use, why requests for gift cards, crypto or wire transfers give them away, and what to do if you’ve sent money.

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Health and Respect

Sexual Health and STI Testing: A Plain Guide for Casual Daters

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How often to get tested for STIs under CDC guidance, where to get tested, how condoms, PrEP and vaccines fit in, and how to bring up testing with a new partner.

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Online Risks

Sextortion and Intimate Images: How to Protect Yourself and Get Help

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How sextortion scams work, why paying rarely ends them, the federal TAKE IT DOWN Act’s 48-hour removal rule, and where adults and teens can get images removed.

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Health and Respect

Early Red Flags: Pressure, Control and When to Walk Away

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Behaviors that signal trouble early in dating, from love-bombing and pressure to jealousy and monitoring, and where to get free, confidential help.

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  • First Date Safety: A Practical Checklist for Meeting Someone New
  • Is Your Match Real? How to Check Before You Meet
  • Romance Scams: The Stories Scammers Tell and How to Spot Them
  • Sexual Health and STI Testing: A Plain Guide for Casual Daters

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