You understand how I'm always encouraging you to become more feminine when you are with men?
The female, womanly part is inside all of us, but most often it's locked away under a veil of “I take care of myself. I'm strong and invulnerable.”
And yes, all that holds true, but leading by using it can put off good men.
Your softness, your femininity 's what attracts grownup, fabulous men like bees to freaking honey. And, more importantly, it makes you are feeling like a whole person.
Yet it's the one thing we often hold back.
Don't Save Your Feminine Side for “Later”
We don't really do it knowingly. This holding back has turned into a device we use to safeguard us all the evils those bad men can bestow on us. Rejection, lying, cheating and worse – as women dating in our 40s, 50s and beyond, we've seen a great deal to make us wary.
So we keep the sensitive, compassionate, soft side of ourselves hidden with bravado, hard work, and an “I have no need for no stinking man” veneer.
Maybe you think that once you trust him or once he scales the wall you place as much as protect yourself, then you'll gladly become more feminine and allow him to have that yummy, sexy, sweet part of your gorgeous self.
Well, there's catch, sister! If you are waiting for him to complete all that first, you may be likely to be waiting a damn long time. Since the generous, masculine good guys – the ones who wish to love, adore, defend and protect you – those guys likely won't give you greater than a second date. They don't waste their time climbing walls.
Your Femininity is Your Power
So-not feeling your feminine much? Look, your juicy woman is within there, she's been hiding in the end these many years of being the one who needs to look after all of the business in your lifetime.
I'm here that will help you reconnect with this juicy woman, since it is HER you need to bring on your dates, and merely maintain the world!
Yes, being more feminine means being more open with your feelings and expressions, and with that comes some vulnerability. But know that this is your strength! Not just since it attracts the right men, but since it is FUN! It is the best way you will get to experience the real man-to-woman relationship that you would like and deserve.
GET YOUR FEMITYPE EXPLAINED…From Men!
Lead with Tenderness around the First Date
Here are 6 tangible things you can do to begin reconnecting with your warm, open feminine self. She's in there-you just need to be reacquainted.
-
Wear color .
You will stick out and when you appear at the reflection you will see yourself as happier, more expressive, emotional and creative. Same goes with he. Believe me on this.
-
Smile.
Smile at yourself within the mirror for at least Thirty seconds before you leave the house or your car. Even if it feels freakish, get it done. Science has shown that even fake smiling creates positive, warm, happy feelings. It lowers your blood pressure and reduces stress. Yes, only the act of arriving your mouth does that. Amazing!
-
Appreciate yourself.
While looking at yourself within the mirror find three stuff you love with regards to you. No damaging self-talk allowed! Say that which you love out loud, just like you were complimenting your best friend. Then, maybe make a list of the items you like about yourself in your mobile phone so that you can carry it with you anywhere you go.
-
Receive graciously.
After you compliment yourself, thank yourself for that compliment. Being able to receive graciously is a confident, feminine trait that is mandatory if you wish to attract and spend your lifetime having a giving, kind, loving man. Then, get out there and practice!Ask for a little the aid of two men today – but for the next five days. Request something similar to directions, help carrying something or his opinion. Once he obliges, give him an easy “thank you” and a smile. Watch his reaction and focus on how it feels that you should receive.
-
Wear sexy undergarments.
No, this isn’t about caving to men’s horny desires. Even if no man will see them , you'll feel sexier and more feminine knowing your sweetheart parts are adorned in beauty and luxury.
-
Start focusing on your emotions .
Are you nervous, excited, tired, hopeful, worried, happy? Write them down-just be aware.Why so much interest? Since most men need a woman's help in order to access their feelings. So that they look for the woman with whom they think safe. Being in touch with your feelings and being able to express them will shift all of your knowledge about men.You will change from purely intellectual connections to ones with more emotion and meaning. This gives you very important information about him and a potential relationship. It moves things forward and will help you stay from the dreaded friend-zone.
Awareness of the Deepest Feelings is the Key
The coaching I'm providing you with here will 100% surely help you be more feminine and attract far better quality men. But that's not all. This should help you truly and deeply have the power of your feminine self! It's not just about him. Embracing her is the own gift!
Follow these steps and begin on the path to be more of the nurturing, kind, open, warm woman you're. Do it for yourself as well as for him. Right feel good to be more feminine? I'd LOVE to hear how these exercises feel for you. Or your ideas to help us feel more yummy like a woman. Leave us a comment and let me know!!